Your attitude towards the choices you make is very important. No matter where we are today, it is because of the choices we have made throughout our lives. Life is the sum of all the decisions we make and the most important decision we will make is the one we have about our attitude towards this.
What is your attitude when it comes to making a difficult decision? When you are on the ground, there are two choices you can make: sit there or get up. When something does not go the way you want, you have a choice of how to react, which sets a rule.
For example, let’s say you have an important presentation at work with a colleague, and even before you start, you notice that that colleague has not arrived. Each was responsible for separate parts of the presentation, so now you’ll need to cover your part. How do you react?
You will probably be very upset with your colleague. But what if I told you that my colleague couldn’t come because he was awake all night at a party and didn’t hear the alarm to wake up in the morning? You’d be even angrier on him, wouldn’t you?
But if I told you he had an accident on the way to work and instead of going to the office, did he get to the hospital? You probably wouldn’t be mad at him in that case, would you?
There are two different reactions!
In any of the two situations, you choose how you react! Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that one reaction is better than the other, or that I justify the absence of your colleague. But, I try to show you that you, and ONLY you, have complete control over the reaction you have in any situation. You can choose compassion or anger, love or hate. So, if the future is when you want to complain about any aspect of your life, take a break and analyze how you got here and what decisions you made along the way!
Start making choices so that you get where you want to be and become the best version of yourself!
Your thoughts build the image of your life
At the end of the day, life is full of choices and you decide how your life will turn out depending on the choices you make.
Every day brings you thousands of choices, from deciding to get out of bed when the phone rings or ringing, to staying overtime at work or choosing to go home to your family, and many more. others. All these decisions may seem small and insignificant during a day, a week or even a whole year, but all of them together lead us to the moment we are right now!
So, if you want to be in a different situation, you must first accept that you are here because of the decisions you have made. Then, you have to understand that as long as everything comes down to decisions, you have to make the decision to change your current situation.
The next step is to accept that all your decisions have consequences. In the end, run all these choices and consequences in your mind so that you can start making better choices to get where you want to go!
If you manage to do this, you will see positive improvements in all areas of your life and, as a result, you will have a happier, more fulfilled life that will allow you to become a better version of yourself.
